P3 Cash Correspondence



Lisa Anne McAninch Carlson January 6 at 1:29pm Report

http://www.facebook.com/Lisa.McAninch.Carlson Well, to begin, as you know Aurora I'm pretty straight up and don't approach drama much but on the subject of stealing sweethearts I wanted to chat with you, and see if you can help me out. I am aware it's a fair part of game play to do it. I am also aware that there is a lot of haters who want to blame others when they could have kept them by pampering on time. I am housing sisters on both sides of this drama now for the first time. I wanted to ask which Theta's are choosing to invoke the SH stealing option, and if you could let me know I would appreciate it. That way I can let my house members who are against it know ahead of time that they may not want to send a friend request to that Theta. I feel bad for hooking up my fellow ADMIN with you all and then a Theta sister stole her SH last week. (I am not in the loop on this at all though, I was told the news in one sentence and replied with this verbatim: "UH OH. SHIT!" Never to hear another word about it. My house members all know I am pro-Theta and we house who we want to-that's a P3 house rule.) I still do feel bad about it though, Aurora, because I had never seen any prior Theta's using this brutal style in their game, in fact, I don't recall anyone in Theta stealing SH's at all? But to hunt for Lotus cars, and dump them, I sort of feel like I set her up when I was blowing the Theta horn and told her to add all of you. I didn't know anyone was doing this in Theta. But I do now. Our P3 house rule is no SH stealing without a prior arrangement or a note, and since it's not looking like your girl wants to play that way, (and I fully support her right to play her game her way-it's HER game), but, could we at least ask to be warned about who I should tell P3 they may NOT to want to add? I know they pick up the lotus cars for the girls in Theta Pledge process, and I'm 100% ok with that being a Theta training tactic-we have to pamper or run that risk of them being stolen-but a lot of girls feel they should be able to trust sisters in their house to have their backs, so taking them in such a hard core manner with no apologies or intentions of returning them, simply for the car, they feel used and cheated- and I can understand that side of it as well, as I'm sure you can. This happens especially when a SH is being shared because one sis may not pamper so the other sis can get him back and they post this to their bubbles and such, well, that other sis may not even house your girl and she's then hot and crying about it too. I know-IT'S JUST A FRIGGEN GAME! I think mostly they are coming from the standpoint that there are other ways to achieve the same goal without being so hard core. I haven't done a circle swap myself but I guess amongst 5 or 6 sisters passing 5 SH's for 10 days they all end up with one Lotus? Me, I am trying to stay cool with the whole game, always, but some do take it more personal than others do. Theta's have always been known to be trusted I guess, at least in my experience, I tell my sisters that all the time- those that consider this untrustworthy or two-faced or whatever may not like me so much if this happens or to recommend they add a Theta who's playing that way. I don't know what else to say on this, but thought I would send you a private message and discuss it. I respect your girls as long as they respect mine, but I think dumping the cars off for another Theta or themselves to conceal and then not even allowing a sis a chance to stalk them or ask for them back is a bit abrasive-I don't want to make enemies over a stupid SH, though, Aurora. I am trying to be a friendly sis is all. I am curious though, what are your own personal thoughts on this in your own game? Do you approve of the hardcore method I'm hearing about? Or? For the record, I bought an OSCAR THE OLDER GUY to keep myself from the drama, and my stats close to a maxed out man. I don't need a lotus if I buy a few good BP cars or win some on my unlucky unfortunate cookies. Too much drama for what little reward they are, and with the new professor raffle it's a great alternative as to the Lotus as well, with no BP or upkeep and paying with GAME CASH well, you know, I am going down that route all day long! I did get upset the first time my maxed out SH was taken though Aurora, I am not gonna lie, but get this: We had a chick pledge to P3, (house rules no stealing without an arrangement or a note) and there was talk of her stealing SH's in other houses, but anyways the ADMINS chatted and I was elected to ask her about these rumors during pledging, but I forgot all about it. Well, she crossed, and as soon as she did, she set off to stealing my maxed out SH (ME- A P3 ADMIN!) the very first week in P3! (And then lied about forgetting to leave a note-blaming it on her grandson falling and needing stitches OMG) Anyways- I stalked him, cussed her and bitched at her, I got him back, all was well. My lotus came the next day or so. But this was my point for telling you. I laughed about it the next day when my house told me they were going to fry her and this and that but I laughed so hard! I told them, "why blame her? I was warned about her before she was given P3 status, I was supposed to chat her up about it, I am the one who forgot, so who better to pay for it than me? Thank God, because I really would have felt like shit had it been one of you she ended up picking on! And I never would have heard the end of it." That sis was removed from P3 that day. <p style="text-align:left">Well, thanks for listening to things with me Aurora. I appreciate it. I wish you all the best with the haters and please know I am not one of them. I only hope we can work something out on this. <p style="text-align:left">Thanks,

<p style="text-align:left">Sista ♥ Lisa Anne

<p style="text-align:left">Hey Lisa, <p style="text-align:left">First, I just want to point out that I got your letter by chance. This is my alt account and only log into it every week or two. My main account doesn't have Theta in the name (strange I know, I need to add it in soon). <p style="text-align:left">Our policy has always been made public and available on our fan page:

<p style="text-align:left">http://www.facebook.com/topic.php?uid=140833815950756&topic=166 <p style="text-align:left">I'm really sorry to hear that this tactic is being seen as 'brutal'. I have a very firm stance on sweetheart stealing in the house (laid out in the above link). Thetas are allowed to steal from one another and no one is allowed to complain. We have a 'take responsibility for your inactions' approach. <p style="text-align:left">Of course, I don't 'encourage' Thetas to steal from fellow Thetas, but by emphasizing personal responsibility, the house stays more positive and focused on their games. Clear cut expectations make the house really run smooth on this topic. <p style="text-align:left">I apologize for your current situation with your house in recommending Thetas. Unfortunately, I don't keep track of who uses this 'brutal' tactic. I know that I, myself, use it. But I wont survey the house and ask something that is irrelevant for us. <p style="text-align:left">My best advice would be to just assume all of them use this 'brutal' tactic to be safe. <p style="text-align:left">I wish you the best Lisa. You have been a fantastic sister. It is unfortunate that the gaming style between our houses seem to have our houses at a conflict. But I would never limit the potential of Theta's builds for the sake of how others feel about a 'loose' association of sisterhood based on a simple friend request. Surely, you must understand my perspective on this. <p style="text-align:left">Happy Gaming and I hope to see you around SL.

<p style="text-align:left">Best Wishes for your House and for you in this new year. <p style="text-align:left">~Aurora Milano

<p style="text-align:left">Theta House Mom

<p style="text-align:left">(I wont be on this account again for a few weeks - please message me any further correspondence to my Aurora Milano account. Sorry for the inconvenience and thank you for understanding.) <p style="text-align:left">**************************

<p style="text-align:left">(Side Note): I was under the impression she was the P3 CASH house leader. It turns out, that's probably not the case.