Talk:P3 Cash Correspondence/@comment-173.18.191.217-20110122094956

Aurora,

I was quite surprised to see this letter we shared posted here. LMAO!

Well, I just wanted to add a little about this correspondence, you may find it quite refreshing, considering the outcome of things after our email. But, after I respond to the SH Stealing incident a little more, I also plan to address/share/correct some misinformation on the P3 Charmed and Dangerous House, and Charmed Assassins Sorority Hunters (P3-CA$H).

Ok, back to the letter. I wanted to tell you all, that it was a few days after I had heard of our Admin having her SH stolen that I decided I wanted to address the subject with you, meanwhile thinking of exactly what it was I wanted to say.

I didn't tell the other Admins or House Mom's of my letter, until after I had sent it. I wanted to do this for myself, mostly, to see if I could keep things from ever feeling "icky" between myself and Mona, the Admin whose SH it was, and also from feeling "icky" between myself and any Theta's. The House Mom is one thing, but the "brutal Theta SH thief" also happens to have been my sister prior to making Theta Pledge Class IV!

So, I didn't want anything put off for too long. I am always thinking of ways to address any problems I have head-on, and keep things respectful and enjoyable for myself and my sisters. So I sent you the letter, and then shared it with my House Moms and the other Admins, once I received your reply.

At first, I will confess, I was pissed at you, Aurora. When I read your reply, I wasn't angry about your policy or the straight up way you addressed a reply to me. It was about the comment 'loose association of sisterhood based on a simple friend request" thing just got to me! LOL I was also admiring how well you quoted "brutal" so many times, as if I was just absurd for using that label.  Turns out, I WAS! And you can add childish too, for my reaction to your "sisterhood" statement, too.

But I would probably have never realized HOW absurd that label really is, if it had not been for a long chat I had with Mona after reading your reply. I went to her to apologize for the "rude" reply (I thought that then) and I was pretty angry. But Mona got my head back on straight. Mona had come back at me with such SAGE advice!

Believe it or not, she was totally agreeing with everything you said in your letter! Not only that, she also told me from now on we are just going to have to learn to protect our SH's from the Thetas. Also letting me know to think of the whole thing differently for a minute, back up. What would we do? If her and I, Julia and Michelle, if we were the Thetas? What would we do as Thetas? For promising to put our house first, our sisters first (which we totally do).

I thought about this, and I didn't get it at first, but then a light bulb went on! I put myself in the role of Theta IN THE THETA HOUSE. Just because in P3, WE don't steal SH's! It's that simple! It's considered disloyal, sneaky and disrespectful in OUR HOUSE. Then suddenly- I GOT IT! I WAS LAUGHING! In THETA HOUSE it's considered what's best for Thetas.

"You know, when I look at it that way Mona, I know what we'd be doing" I said, "We'd be out all fucking night long, jacking every LOTUS in town!"

LMAO! It would never be thought of as "brutal" either, it would only be thought of as "it's just what we do".

So, my apologies for my inability to empathize with the whole SH stealing concept before I wrote that letter, Aurora. I am self-centered too, sometimes. The "loose association of sisterhood based on a simple friend request" comment, I now see wasn't personal. After I realized you weren't directing it AT me, and that it was a metaphor to the Theta Love you all have for each other in comparison to all of the other "sisters" you have, and it's not about a SH, it's about the Theta getting the damn Lotus' because it's whats best for Thetas.

Now, I understand and I have no problem with the SH policy, ever since Mona and I talked that day. I will add that I had NOT seen that policy before you replied with it that day though. As for the rest of it all, I get what you're doing, for I am P3 and I would do anything for my HOUSE. Cause we got it like that. We are Charmed! We are Dangerous! (P3 by the way stands for Power OF Three)

And now to address your side note above as well as the incorrect info you have "Wikied" about the P3 Charmed and Dangerous House, and the P3-CA$H GROUP.

P3 CHARMED AND DANGEROUS HOUSE is a house you must pledge to. We have a pledge process, it's two weeks long. The fan page is only accessed by invitation, and there is a place to post for potential pledges. House Mom Michelle decides who she thinks would be a good "fit" and invites them to pledge.

As for Charmed Assassins Sorority Hunters, P3 House Mom Michelle created a page for Julia Beresford and I, to form a GROUP, which was really Julia's idea, Michelle and I helped get it going as well. There is no house mom or admin to the CA$H group, so I never would have represented myself as such to you, only as an Admin to P3 House, which is where you may have been confused about that. I do admire your abilities as House Mothers, but I am not cut out for Motherhood at my age. My kids are grown, ages 24 and 26. Mom, I am, but mothering, lol I am not!

We joke in P3 about me whining for a title, as an officer, not just an Admin, but I am happy as an Admin. However, Michelle let me choose an honorary title. I chose the title Officer in Charge of Bitches who WHINE. (my SL characters, all 8, have BITCH in the name)

But as for CA$H, Julia and I created all of the documents and the page info, Julia added her best hunters to the group and I created the Group Pic and all of our documents etc. about hunting. I am also the one who contacted you Aurora, asking permission to use your eGuide and Toolbar/Theta training materials as a resource link. I also added you to the CA$H group to come as an honored guest and check it out.

P3-CA$H Charmed Assassins Sorority Hunters, is a GROUP. Anyone can be added who is interested in learning to hunt bounty on the BL, we also are adding the best bounty hunters we have on SL to offer support, advice, encouragement and of course, tools like the Theta SLC and eGuide, the toolbar etc. If any of the Theta's would like to sit in as an honored guest, we would welcome them as well. The group IS, after all, for the BEST BH's. RIGHT?

The story of CA$H was written down by me, in a document you can find on my profile page notes. I have it restricted to all Theta's only. As it will remain in the group CA$H after you have read it. And I hope you will.

I have much love and respect for you all.

I hope we can continue being loosely associated also :-)

<3 Lisa Anne